The best dogs for children

While all dogs can be loving and loyal companions, some breeds are naturally better suited for living with kids. Here are some of the best dogs for families with children, plus some tips on choosing the right dog for your home.
What to consider when choosing a dog for children
Before bringing a dog into your home, there are a few important things to consider, especially when it comes to children. Choosing the right breed for your family can help ensure that both your dog and your kids enjoy a happy and safe environment. Here are some things to keep in mind.
1. Temperament
When it comes to dogs and children, temperament is crucial. Dogs that are friendly, patient, and easy-going are generally the best companions for kids. Dogs that are tolerant and not overly sensitive to loud noises, sudden movements, or rough handling tend to also be a good fit.
2. Size of the dog
The size of the dog is another important consideration. Larger dogs may unintentionally knock over younger children while playing, but small dogs might not enjoy the same rough-and-tumble playtime that older children enjoy. A medium-sized dog often strikes the right balance, as they can handle rough play without being too fragile or too strong.
3. Energy levels
If you have active children who love to play, you might want a dog that can keep up with their energy levels. However, some families prefer a calmer dog that can enjoy a slower pace of life at home. You’ll want to choose a breed that aligns with your family’s activity level to ensure a good match.
4. Training and socialisation
Training is essential for any dog, but especially when there are children in the house. Look for a breed that is easy to train and eager to please. Proper socialisation is key to helping your dog feel comfortable with children, other pets, and strangers. Dogs that are well-socialised are less likely to react negatively to unexpected situations or loud noises.
5. Grooming requirements
Some dog breeds require more grooming than others. If you’re not keen on regular grooming sessions or have a busy lifestyle, you may want to choose a breed with lower grooming needs.
6. Health issues
Some dog breeds are more prone to specific health issues, so it’s essential to research each breed thoroughly before making a decision. Certain dogs may have higher veterinary costs or require more specialised care. Additionally, some breeds might be better suited to homes with specific environmental conditions, such as homes with allergies or asthma.
Best dogs for families with children
While all dogs can vary in personality, certain breeds are naturally more child-friendly than others. Here’s a list of 10 breeds that may be a good choice for owners with kids.
Just remember, this is only a guide and not a recommendation on which dog to choose – every dog is different and you’ll need to consider a range of factors when choosing which breed is right for you.
1. Labrador Retriever
Labradors are renowned for their friendly, affectionate nature, making them one of the best dogs for children. They’re playful and energetic, which makes them great companions for kids who love outdoor activities. Labradors are also highly trainable and usually get along well with other pets and people. Their gentle temperament and love for family life make them ideal for families with children of all ages.
2. Golden Retriever
Like Labradors, Golden Retrievers are known for their calm, loving nature and are one of the best family dogs. They’re typically gentle and patient with children, making them a perfect choice for homes with young kids. Golden Retrievers are also easy to train and enjoy being around people, which makes them great companions for family activities. They do require regular exercise, so are more suited to active families who can give them the attention they need.
3. Beagle
Beagles are friendly, playful, and social dogs that generally enjoy being around children. Their small to medium size makes them a good fit for families with children, and they tend to be very patient and tolerant. Beagles have a lot of energy and enjoy playing, making them a good match for kids who love to run and play. However, they can be very vocal, so if you’re looking for a quieter dog, they might not be the best choice.
4. Cavalier King Charles Spaniel
The Cavalier King Charles Spaniel is a gentle, affectionate breed that can be great with children. These dogs are very social and enjoy being around people, making them ideal companions for families. Their small size and friendly nature make them great pets for children of all ages, and they’re also relatively easy to train. Cavaliers are typically calm and enjoy a good cuddle, but they’re also playful – a great mix for kids!
5. Basset Hound
Basset Hounds are calm, patient, and generally laid-back dogs, making them great for families with children. Known for their friendly, affectionate nature and love of being around people, Basset Hounds are typically happy to go with the flow, making them perfect for families looking for a relatively low-maintenance companion. They do require regular exercise to stay healthy, but they’re not overly energetic.
6. Boxer
Boxers are energetic, playful, and loyal dogs that tend to do well in families with children (especially older kids that can match their energy levels). They’re known for their protective nature, are typically patient with children, and love to be a part of family activities. While they do require a fair amount of exercise, they’re pretty adaptable and can be a great addition to active families.
7. Whippet
Whippets are affectionate, gentle dogs that usually do well around children as they’re playful without being overly boisterous. Their calm nature means they’re just as happy snuggling on the sofa as they are playing a game outside. And with their short coats and modest exercise needs, they’re also relatively low-maintenance for busy families. Just be sure to give them the opportunity to have a good sprint every day.
8. Collie
Collies, particularly the Rough Collie, are known for their intelligence and gentle nature, making them great dogs for families with children. They tend to be patient, loyal, and protective, making them excellent companions for kids. Collies are also highly trainable and enjoy being part of family activities. They do need lots of regular exercise, so are better suited for active families who can provide daily walks and outdoor play.
9. Staffordshire Bull Terrier
Staffordshire Bull Terriers are often misunderstood due to their muscular build, but they’re generally affectionate and gentle dogs. Staffies are typically patient with children and enjoy being involved in family activities, making them suited to homes where they can receive plenty of attention and care. As with all dogs, but especially strong breeds like Staffies, supervision around kids is a must. Early socialisation is also important to prevent unwanted behaviours.
10. Shih Tzu
Shih Tzus are small, calm, and friendly dogs that make great companions for children. They’re generally patient and easy-going, making them great for families with young children. Shih Tzus don’t need a lot of exercise, so they’re perfect for families who live in smaller homes or flats. They do require regular grooming to keep their coats in good condition, but they’re generally low-maintenance and easy to care for.
Tips for creating a positive relationship between dogs and children
While choosing the right dog is important, training and supervision are equally essential to ensure a positive relationship between your dog and children. Here are some tips for helping your dog and kids get along.
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Teach children to be gentle - Children need to understand how to properly interact with dogs. Teach them to approach dogs calmly, not to pull on their tails or ears, and to respect the dog’s space when they need it.
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Supervise playtime - Always supervise your children when they’re interacting with the dog, especially if they’re younger. This ensures that both the child and the dog feel safe and comfortable.
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Socialise your dog early - Early socialisation is key to helping your dog feel comfortable around children. Introduce your dog to different situations, people, and environments to ensure they’re well-adjusted.
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Positive reinforcement - Use positive reinforcement techniques to reward both your dog and your children for positive interactions. This encourages a bond based on respect and love.
Choosing the right dog for your children can bring them years of joy, companionship, and learning. Just remember that every dog is an individual, so while breed tendencies can act as a guide, training, care, and socialisation are important for a happy and long-lasting friendship.
For more information on the characteristics, potential health issues and temperament of different dogs, see our list of A–Z dog breeds.
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Adam Jolley is a writer specialising in insurance, personal finance, and pets. He’s worked for Confused.com and Admiral Insurance, and currently writes and edits for an online magazine. His strangest pet was a hissing cockroach. Now, he’s a proud cat dad to Penelope, affectionately known as Nelly.
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